I voluntarily turned over all financial documentation in the divorce. I answered everything openly and honestly, because I was under oath. I got to watch her then lie, cheat and steal and she got almost everything she wanted. Her attorney even help her craft some of the lies.

I wish I could say morals, values, honesty win and we have a fair legal system, but my experience proves differently. During my custody battle, I was interviewed by the Gardian Ad Litem. I told her I would like joint custody with my children half of the time. She told me that half of the time would be too much time away from their mother. Can you believe the biasis in that statement.

It was A-O.K. for the children to be away from me (their other parent) more than 50% of the time. This court appointed representor of my children didn’t even contact all of my references. Needless to say, she was totally on my x’s side despite me showing that she had no morals and had a history of mental problems.

Thank you for your advice, I will pursue it, but I think in my case I need to carry a “big stick” in order to get the job done. I’m sorry if this comes accross negatively. My situation has been unbelievably frustrating. I truely do appreciate your advice and encouragement.